Paul L. Lavallee

WORCESTER – Paul L. Lavallee, 64, passed away in the comfort of his home, surrounded by his beloved family, on Thursday, April 30, 2026.

Born in Worcester and raised in Millbury, Paul was the son of the late A. Roger and H. Janice (Langway) Lavallee. He attended Assumption Catholic School and was a graduate of Holy Name Central Catholic High School. He went on to further his education at Worcester State University, where he majored in computer science.

In 1988, Paul met Raemah (Williams) Lavallee while the two were working at Health Plans, Inc. They were married in 1993 at St. Anne's Church in Southborough. Together, they made their home in Worcester, where they lovingly raised their daughters and lived for the past 32 years.

Paul dedicated 35 years of his career to Reliant Medical Group, where he worked as a senior software developer. He had a passion for his work and found great satisfaction in problem solving, often refusing to turn in for the night until he fixed a problem. In addition to his many contributions to the company, he loved socializing and made many dear friends over the years.

Paul was incredibly proud of the home he and Raemah created for their family and loved spending his time there. He especially enjoyed the warmer months where he could work in the yard, meticulously care for his pool, host cookouts, golf with his friends, and take annual family vacations to Cape Cod. He was an excellent cook and was happiest when preparing days’ worth of food while cheering on Boston sports teams and surrounded by his adoring family.

Above all else, Paul was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, brother, and friend. He is survived by his beloved wife, Raemah (Williams) Lavallee of Worcester; his cherished daughters, Lauren J. Lavallee of Waltham and Julia A. Lavallee of Millbury; his adored granddaughter, Isla R. Abramo, the light of his life; his brother, Peter C. Lavallee and his wife Kelly of Naples, FL; and his sister, Lisa M. Vaughan and her husband James of Millbury. He also leaves many nieces, nephews, brothers- and sisters-in-law, countless dear friends, and his best friend, Molly, the family mini-Labradoodle.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend a period of calling hours on Wednesday, May 6, 2026, from 4:00 PM to 7:00 PM at Miles Funeral Home, 1158 Main Street, Holden. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Thursday, May 7, 2026, at 10:00 AM at St. George Catholic Church, 40 Brattle Street, Worcester. Interment will be held privately.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Paul’s name may be made to The Prostate Cancer Foundation, 1250 Fourth Street, Santa Monica, CA 90401.