Honoring the pets who have touched our lives.

A dear friend recently experienced the devastating loss of her home in a tragic fire. In a heartfelt reflection shared on Facebook, she included a touching tribute and photograph of their beloved dog who sadly perished in the fire. The image deeply moved me, reminding me of the profound role pets play in our lives and how their loss is deeply felt—regardless of the circumstances. Pet loss can be as heart wrenching a grief as the death of a human friend or loved one.


Rainbow Bridge Remembrance Day, observed on August 18, offers an opportunity to honor and remember the pets who have touched our lives.  In case you are not familiar with it, here is the tale The Rainbow Bridge:


When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

 

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

 

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

 

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.  Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together….       (Author unknown)


Here are several meaningful, creative, and community-centered ways to participate in the August 18th Remembrance:


🧡 Acts of Kindness in Memory

Donate to a Local Shelter or Rescue

Contribute supplies, money, or time in your pet’s name.

Sponsor a Shelter Pet

Choose a pet in need and sponsor their care in memory of your beloved companion.

Make or Donate Pet Toys or Blankets

Craft toys or cozy items and donate them to shelters.

Send a Care Package to a Friend Who Lost a Pet

Include comforting items and a handwritten note.

 

🐾 Personal Tributes

Create a Memory Shrine:  Display photos, toys, collars, or urns in a special place at home. Light a candle in their memory.

Write a Letter to Your Pet:  Share memories, feelings, or updates. Place it near their resting spot or keep it in a journal.

Memory Album or Scrapbook:  Make a photo book of your pet’s life. Include favorite stories, funny moments, or vet visit stickers.

Plant a Tree or Garden:  Dedicate a plant, flower bed, or tree in their name.

Rainbow Bridge Art Project:  Paint or draw a rainbow or your pet in a peaceful place. Create paw print art if you have prints saved.

 

🐶 Community & Social Media Engagement:

Share a Tribute Post:  Post a photo and memory using hashtags like #RainbowBridgeRemembranceDay or #RememberingMyPet.

Join an Online Pet Memorial Service:  Participate in or host a virtual candle lighting or memorial on Zoom or Facebook Live.

Pet Memorial Wall or Event (Local or Virtual):  Create a physical or digital board where people can post names and photos of their pets.

 

🌈 Creative Ways to Celebrate

Hold a Rainbow Picnic or Walk

Wear rainbow colors and take a walk or picnic in your pet’s favorite park.

Listen to or Create a Playlist

Include songs that remind you of your pet or helped you heal.

Make a Wind Chime or Garden Stone

Personalize it with their name, paw prints, or favorite colors.

Release Biodegradable Lanterns or Bubbles

  • Symbolically send your love to the Rainbow Bridge.

 

Join us on Rainbow Bridge Remembrance Day on August 18th by visiting the Miles Funeral Home Facebook or Instagram page to post a reflection or picture of on your pet. Share your pet’s impact on your life and what you've learned through loss and love.

 

If you are in need of afterlife services for your pet nearby locations that have cremation services and/or memorial gardens for pets include:

 

Forever Friends Cremation & Funeral Services (Worcester, MA)

Address: 17 Prentice Street, Worcester, MA 01604 bbb.orgfureverpetcremation.com
Phone: (508) 414‑1339 bbb.orgmanta.com
Email: via website contact form (info not publicly listed) 
Website: fureverpetcremation.com fureverpetcremation.comfureverpetcremation.com

Services:

  • Private cremation for individual pets (only that pet in chamber)
  • Return of cremated remains via vet or directly to family
  • Paw print certificate, fur clipping, temporary urn
  • Grief support, memorial products, tributes

 

Forget‑Me‑Not Pet Crematory (Northborough, MA)

Address: 80 Lyman Street, Northborough, MA 01532 forget-me-notpetcrematory.commapquest.com
Phone: (508) 393‑0133 forget-me-notpetcrematory.comloc8nearme.com
Email: not publicly listed (contact via website form)
Website: forget-me-notpetcrematory.com forget-me-notpetcrematory.comforget-me-notpetcrematory.com

Services:

  • Individual and group cremation for dogs, cats, birds, other pets up to ~300 lbs
  • Option to attend cremation process (by appointment)
  • Memorial products (urns, pendants), grief support, remembrance services


Joel’s Memorial Pet Garden

Address: Gardner Animal Care Center – Joel’s Memorial Pet Garden (in Gardner, MA) Website: gardneranimalcarecenter.com
Phone: (978) 632‑7110 (main clinic line)

Services:

  • Veterinary care (AAHA‑accredited full‑service animal hospital)
  • Memorial garden for pets—visitors may place rocks, ashes, or mementos in tribute
  • Additional services: boarding, grooming, training, behavioral consultations, adoption, seminars, agility/playgroups, community events

 

 

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